I mentioned in a previous post that I make a distinction between a traditional male “penile orgasm” and another type of orgasm. I’ve heard this described as an “anal orgasm” before, but I kind of think that’s a misnomer as well, because they can be gotten in other ways. For me, nipple stimulation does the trick. Although my preferred method is either being fisted or having electricity run through my prostate. Yum.
That said, here’s some stuff I’ve thrown up on my FetLife profile over the years to describe this second kind of orgasm to those who are unfortunate enough to have never experienced it.
Found this online. I didn’t write it, but the author hits the nail on the head as to why an anal orgasm is so much better than the regular kind. It’s the ability to enjoy these that makes being locked up worth it to me.
“It depends a lot on the person. Some guys are much more sensitive than others, and there’s a difference between having anal stimulation while also stimulating the penis, and having an orgasm from anal stimulation alone. My anus and prostate are very very sensitive, and I’ve experienced both types many times (from sex, as well as dildos) and for me, personally, they are both unbelievably intense. It’s a very different feeling from penis stimulation alone–it’s a least twice as ‘potent’ i guess you could say. I prefer to have an orgasm from receiving anal sex without touching myself at all. This almost always takes longer than if I also touch my penis, intensifying slowly at first and then rapidly becoming more intense, so that I often feel like I’m going to climax only for the intensity to increase. At this point, I’m experiencing a feeling that is easily as intense as a normal orgasm, but I have not climaxed yet, and may not until the feeling has reached a hard-to-believe critical mass. Once I do climax, my prostate will swell up and become hyper-sensitive, almost like it is being tickled (i use that word because to me tickling feels good, but it’s too intense to take all at once) and it is now the most sensitive part of my body. It’s literally overwhelming, and once I’ve climaxed it is almost impossible to self-stimulate the prostate any more, as the body naturally rejects the ridiculous intensity of it, as it would tickling. It’s best during sex, since my partner can continue to stimulate the prostate after my climax–the longer he goes, the more intense it becomes, the continued stimulation basically extending the orgasm indefinitely. At this point I’m usually twitching uncontrollably and squirming, actually having involuntary and almost violent muscle movements all over my body which sometimes last for a few minutes even after sex is over. It’s very refreshing and cathartic, although many people will prefer to end the prostate stimulation once they have ejaculated, and others may not react in such an extreme fashion. As great as it is, it feels very different from a penis-only orgasm, and not necessarily “better”–that’s subjective, but for the record, I’ll go for the anal-induced “seizure-gasm” 99 times out of 100.”
This is from a conversation I had with someone on FetLife describing that same sensation as I experienced it:
“I’m not really sure that he made me “come,” I think the terms need to be defined. To me, “come” means to shoot semen, while “orgasm” means to, well, have an orgasm. They can happen independently of each other. I’ve had plenty of orgasms since being locked up (hell, just playing with my nipple rings does it these days), but as far as I can tell, I’ve only come twice. And the only way that I knew I came was that I noticed semen the next time I went to pee. Usually, nothing but precome comes out, but I leak that pretty steadily these days.
The orgasms are really weird. It’s like I feel my prostate tingling, and I can feel whatever it is in there opening up and releasing precome; the actual orgasm is a really, really intense urge to clench all of my abdominal/groin muscles. It can actually be painful, and it’s also hard to breathe when it happens. Bossman likes to wire me up to our estim box and make me have 5 or 6 of them in a row, which is utterly hellish after the first 2 or 3. I’m usually drenched in sweat, exhausted and my abs hurt the next day like I did a hardcore workout at the gym.”
So, yeah. There you have it. I’ve said it before: I’m 100% okay with never having a traditional penile orgasm again if it means I’m allowed to have this instead. From conversations I’ve had with female friends of mine, they’ve said what I’m describing sounds a lot like how women have orgasms versus the traditional male orgasm. Which I find fascinating and a little hot at the same time.